best advice for divorce

What the best advice for divorce:

People thing the answer:

- Prepare yourself because you are about to meet the real person you married

- Get an attorney, document everything, screenshot all conversations

- If there are children involved, I highly recommend getting a GAL (guardian ad litem) which is an attorney that represents the children

- Join our family wizard which is an app you can use to communicate with your spouse, all conversation is monitored by the courts, as hard as it seems you will get through this

- If you have children, do not put them in the middle of your divorce or talk bad about the other parent them

- Do not jump into another relationship right away, be kind to yourself

Give it a year before deciding to divorce, do not let feelings guide you

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- Get a good lawyer and look out for yourself, there are so many things that you do not think of

- Get counseling, helps with your own mental and emotional health

- Give yourself 5 years to fully recover. It what my sister told me and it was true

- Time will heal all wounds so if you made that decision and you are sure about about it go for it and be happy

- Time will heal all wounds and pain so if you made that decision and you are sure about it go for it and be happy

- Do not shut the people out that are truly there for you

- Never use the children to get back at your ex

- Pray and if you have children, no matter what, do not bash the other parent. They will respect that as they get older

- Do not waste energy on words spoken to your ex. Bite your lip, breathe and stay busy

Remember he is not the person you thought he was

- You will be fine, it is for our own good, do not sweat it, someone better come your way

- Just do not go back because your lonely. Keep your head high and stand your ground. It will get easier

- Be careful who you talk and advice from people you do not know

- You will get thru. Fight for what you want in the end, stay positive

- Pray and lean on God for peace, comfort and wisdom. Do not rush into another relationship, give yourself lots of time for you. Learn to be strong on your own. Never let your ex see you cry, always be the tough

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- Do not ever drag your kids into the mess or disrespect the other parent in front of them. Know you will get thru this and come thru smarter and stronger

- Take your time and focus on you, do not jump right into another relationship

- Do not air your dirty laundry in public

- My mom said it is like a death. The death of a marriage and all the hopes you had. Sorry I think like a death you have to give yourself time to go through the five stages of grief

Talked it out a lot to someone you can trust, talking about helps you process

- Do not ever speak of your ex-partner in front of the children. In time will see the truth with their own eyes. It is frustrating, but literally, the truth shall you free

 

Many things can make a problem in a relationship, can start will small things and be a drama, be wise and always patience to take and solve the problem.

 

Thank you, danke, terimakasih, maulate